Modern dating can feel confusing and overwhelming. We’ll provide the structure, support, and expert guidance you need to build a meaningful, productive, and fun IRL dating life. No snake oil, strict rules, or dating fads–expect time-tested guidance and accountability to help you take the brave next steps to build relationships that work for you.
Like a personal trainer for your dating life
Feeling stuck?
Don’t feel like dating apps are delivering what you hoped. You’re tired of endless matching, messaging, lackluster dates, and ghosting.
Are burnt out on dating overall, and aren’t enjoying the process. You might want to keep putting yourself out there, but you’re exhausted.
Are sick of the same bad advice from social media or well-meaning loved ones. You don’t want to hear “it’s a numbers game” or “it’ll happen when you least expect it” ever again.
Like the idea of meeting people in person, but struggle to actually make those new IRL connections. You either aren’t meeting new people, or find it hard to connect when you do.
Find yourself running up against the same dead ends, and don’t know what to do next. You might find yourself going after people who aren’t a good fit, repeating the same short-term situationships, or getting in your own way.
Together, we’ll work to get you off of dating apps and building meaningful connection IRL. We’ll get clear on what’s important to you, what’s holding you back, and what you can start doing right away to get closer to your dating goals.
We’ll cut through the clutter
Over the course of 8 weeks, we’ll work 1-1 to take a bird’s-eye view of your dating life. We’ll uncover your personal pain points and develop a tailored game plan to level up your dating game. Together, we’ll develop new insights, skills, and confidence that will put you back in the driver’s seat.
Let’s get “un-stuck”
“She was very skilled at identifying points of improvement and cognitive dissonance. She addressed them through skillfully holding me accountable to myself even when I struggled to do so.
“By going through the sessions with Elle, I was able to get comfortable in my own skin through finding synergy between what is good for me, what I truly want, and what truly makes me happy.”
“Elle is the most skilled coach I have ever worked with. She has a very encouraging approach to coaching through discussion, suggestions, and invitations to new ways of thinking and living.”
What Our Friends Have to Say
Don’t just take our word for it! We’re all about referrals from friends:
You have an open mind, and are willing to step outside of your comfort zone to try something new!
You’re ready to ask yourself serious questions about what you’re looking for, what’s holding you back, and how you can build the skills and accountability to move yourself forward.
You like the idea of spending less time on dating apps and more time meeting people in person.
You’re looking to build meaningful relationships–if you’re looking for roster building, pickup artistry, or casual dating, you’re in the wrong place!
You feel successful in other areas of your life, like your career and friendships, but are still struggling in your romantic life.
Is a dating coaching for you?
It might be a fit if:
Making change anywhere requires changing our habits and mindset for the long run. We’ll work together to build an ongoing dating game plan that’s productive, sustainable, and fun.
YOUR STRUCTURE
While our capacity for love might be innate, dating skills aren’t. We’ll discover where you feel confident, and where you have room for learning and growth.
YOUR SKILLS
What’s actually getting in your way, and how can we move past it?
YOUR BARRIERS
What are you really looking for?
YOUR GOALS
The Process
Over 8 weeks together we will clarify:
Aren’t dating coaches… a scam? Shouldn’t I be able to find someone on my own?
Will I be in a relationship at the end of this?
What’s required of me during our work together?
What age groups do you work with?
While our services are tailored to daters in their late twenties to late thirties, we have experience working with daters across age groups. If our offerings resonate with you, get in touch to see if it might be a fit.
What age groups do you work with?
Aren’t dating coaches… a scam? Shouldn’t I be able to find someone on my own?
Will I be in a relationship at the end of this?
What’s required of me during our work together?
What age groups do you work with?
We’ll have 45 minute video calls once a week for 8 weeks. In between, you’ll have homework assignments (I promise to keep them fun) and IRL exercises to put your learning into practice. Overall, we’ll work to make dating fit into your life (and not the other way around). Expect to dedicate meaningful time to our work, but don’t expect it to take over!
What’s required of me during our work together?
Aren’t dating coaches… a scam? Shouldn’t I be able to find someone on my own?
Will I be in a relationship at the end of this?
What’s required of me during our work together?
What age groups do you work with?
I’ll never make a promise like that, and I wouldn’t trust anyone who does. Although some clients may meet someone during our work together, I honor everyone’s unique path. My goal is to give you the clarity, tools, and structure to put you in the driver’s seat of your dating life. While I can’t control exact timing, I can help you avoid spending your energy in ways that aren’t aligned with your goals, and help you take steps towards what’s important to you more quickly than you might be able to do on your own.
Will I be in a relationship at the end of this?
Aren’t dating coaches… a scam? Shouldn’t I be able to find someone on my own?
Will I be in a relationship at the end of this?
What’s required of me during our work together?
What age groups do you work with?
I get it: dating coaches don’t always have the best reputation! While there are plenty of quacks out there, a good dating coach is a lot like a good personal trainer. While you might know how to go to the gym on your own, and plenty of people get fit without the help of a trainer, people who are serious about learning deeply and getting results quickly call in the help of an expert. Professional athletes almost always have a team of coaches and trainers supporting them to perform their best! As a certified dating coach, I’ll be able to provide you with objective perspective, educated insight, and compassionate support to help you move forward faster.
