We host dating events where everyone’s single and came with a friend. To join us, you have to bring a friend of the orientation you’re interested in dating–that way, you know our events are always balanced, everyone’s vetted, and no one has to go through them alone. Find your favorite wingman and get your tickets below!
come play wingman
Even if you haven’t met “your person,” you have a full social life and know wonderful people who you can vouch for.
Have great friends who would be a match for someone else:
You’re open to meeting someone IRL, but aren’t sure where to begin.
Don’t know where to go to meet people:
You’re burnt out on endless swiping, messaging, lackluster dates, and ghosting. You want more accountability and meaningful connection.
Are tired of dating apps:
Want to meet someone
“through friends?”
We host events of all different formats, from cocktail parties to speed dating to fun activities and collabs. However, no matter what you choose, you can be sure that you’ll meet a balanced pool of great, social singles who’ve all been vetted by a friend.
Just parties with great single friends
We get it, meeting people “in the wild” can be scary. That’s why we’ve thoughtfully designed every event to facilitate connection and make it easier to be brave. With expert hosts, intentional touches, and the support of your wingman, you’ll have everything you need to get chatting with other great, social singles. Whether you meet someone special, make a friend, or just feel proud for stepping outside your comfort zone, it’s a refreshing change from the world of online dating.
You bring a friend, we help with the rest
You have great friends you’d be happy to see someone else date
You’re ready to step outside of your comfort zone and meet people IRL
You’re looking to build meaningful romantic relationships
You’re in your late twenties to late thirties.
Who is this for?
These events are for you if:
Let loose, flirt, support your wingman, and make new friends. At the end of the day, dating is supposed to be fun!
HAVE FUN!
If you liked someone, say so! If you said you’d text, do it. If someone’s not feeling you, accept it graciously. We’re here to support a clearer, kinder dating culture.
Communicate with clarity and respect:
People do best at our events when they keep an open mind and remain flexible about the kinds of connections they’ll make; maybe they get to know someone who isn’t their “type,” or make a friend who connects them to a date down the line. Come with intention, but let serendipity happen.
Stay open, curious, and kind
Remember that everyone is there to meet new people. Introduce yourself, ask a question, and get in on the action. We’re here to support you, but we hope you’ll take that last courageous step.
BE BRAVE
Unless otherwise specified, all of our tickets are sold in pairs. You’ll need to show up with each other in order to be admitted.
ARRIVE TOGETHER
Grab a pal of the orientation you’re interested in dating (for example, if you’re a woman interested in dating men, you’ll need to bring a man interested in dating women).
Find your wingman
We offer a variety of event formats for different preferences and comfort levels. Pick what sounds most fun to you.
Choose your event
What Goes Down:
- It encourages you to keep your eyes open for great people in your life you may have overlooked. Do you have a coworker, cousin, sibling, college pal, or friend-of-a-friend you haven’t considered? Our attendees regularly come up with creative solutions when they take some time to think about it.
- It ensures gender balance (at applicable events). No one wants to show up at an event where they either have no one to choose from or feel overwhelmed by all of the attention. This requirement guarantees that all of our events are always even.
- It’s a built-in vetting process. We don’t screen for things like income, height, or education, but we do care that attendees are vouched for by someone they know, and have strong platonic relationships across gender lines. This requirement, while sometimes a challenge, repeatedly brings us a kind, social, high-quality crowd, without us having to impose arbitrary screening measures.
- We value community, and that means that if you want to participate, you have to contribute! If you’re looking to meet other people’s great single friends, we require that you bring one for someone else to meet too.
What's the deal with the +1 requirement?
What genders/sexual orientations do you work with?
What age groups do you work with?
What cities do you operate in?
We are currently focused on NYC. However, we’d love to know if you’re an experienced host in another city!
What cities do you operate in?
What genders/sexual orientations do you work with?
What age groups do you work with?
What cities do you operate in?
We recommend our events for singles in their late twenties to late thirties, unless otherwise specified.
What age groups do you work with?
What genders/sexual orientations do you work with?
What age groups do you work with?
What cities do you operate in?
We do our best to put together a diverse array of events every month to welcome friends of all genders and orientations. Check out our lineup and event descriptions to see which ones are the best fit for you.
